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Way #8 – You’re willing to save if you’re a spendthrift and spend if you’re chintzy

The point of this section isn’t really about money at all, but a willingness to examine fundamental beliefs as a direct result of valuting another person and his or her perspective and opinion (Yeah, the same phenomenon can happen with friends, but because friends generally tolerate and celebrate differences, there’s less motive or incentive for change.)

Any good relationship changes us. If being around your beloved makes you examine or change some fundamental part of yourself, it may not be love in and of itself, but it does indicate respect, a willingness to learn from another, and a relationship in which you feel safe enough to try something foreign and scary.

I’m not talking flattery or hypocrisy here; I’m talking about having the courage and strength and energy to ecamine and experiment with a fundamental belief system, be it religion, politics, gun control, abortion, chinese food, travel, having children, gardening, money, or any other position you used to consider inviolate. (Money? you say. Yep. It’s hard to think of any commodity that is more basic than money. If you think money is just green stuff that just sits there, you are wrong; it’s power and lifestyle and control and options and freedom and interaction and a whole lot more.)


June 22, 2009 Posted by | Dating, Relationships | , , , , , , | Leave a comment