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Take a walk to a new place

Yeah, I know this sounds like a metaphor, and it probably is, but we are influenced by our own behavior. A walk makes a slower pace, together in a larger world, exploring a place neither of you have ever been before. Look, don’t be sillly. I’m not talking about walking through a dark park at midnight and worrying about whether or not you’re going to get mugged, and getting lost isn’t necessarily romantic. Use caution and sense and your head. Go for a walk on a new beach or a national park in daylight, a hike through a woods, or even a stroll around the block. The idea is experiencing both something new and part of the greater world together. A picnic lunch is optional.

Other cool places to experience together:

Aquariums: Water is always romantic, just don’t go out for seafood afterwards
Zoos: Don’t go on a Sunday unless absolutely necessary or you’re very found of small kids.
Amusement Parks: Beware of rides that make you nauseous.
Water parks: Fun and water is seductive.
Beaches: I love the water; I’m prejudiced
Museums and sculpture gardens: You can walk, hold hands, and talk.
Botanical gardens: Make sure it’s not hay fever season.
Churches: The air is special and candlelight is always flattering.
Row boats: Being on the water is lovely if you can row.
Mountains: Don’t get caught unprepared.
The desert: Being outside is almost always lovely, and a desert is austere and basic. Bring water.
Paris: Okey, so I love spitting cherry pits and walking on the Champs Elysee.
Redwood forest: Being around something that’s been around that long puts things is perspective.
New York at Christmas: What can I say?
Carriage rides: Lots of cities have them.
Fireplaces: Gets us right back to the caves and our ancestors.
Country lanes: Beware of traffic.

The point of St. Valentine’s messages was thinking about the concerns of his friend even through he was imprisoned. You’re not imprisoned or a martyr, and we’re talking more than friendship here, but you get the point.

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August 4, 2009 Posted by | Dating, Relationships | , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Share Baby pictures and Stories

Your mom trots out your baby pictures for a reason: You were really cute and cuddly and sweet and innocent, and there’s something elemental and basic and charming and nostalgic about seeing who you were then. I know you’re feeling a little silly about this, but if you’re willing to show your love a little about you were then, your love will know a bit more about who you’ve become, just don’t make this sharing time a chapter meeting for the dysfunctional and abused victims of the world. No harsh episodes or horror stories.

If you can’t conjure up any pleasant memories from your childhood, you probably need to think therapy, not dating, It’s really true that it’s  hard to love anyone else until you can love yourself. And if you can’t love your baby self, get some help so that you can.

August 3, 2009 Posted by | Dating, Relationships | , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment